Women are so dumb and blinded by love that we forget the root of the problem is the no good man you are with. He is the one that made promises to you, not her! We are quick to turn the blame on the other chick for distracting your man and coming on too strong to him. You have no reason to be mad at her, she saw something she wanted, just like you, and got it. He is the one you need to b*tch out for breaking your trust. He is the one you need to slap upside the head a few times with a loaf of bread. You look stupid for attacking and innocent person who just met you for the first time and probably is just as heartbroken as you are. The only conversation you two should have is details about how long he has been lying to the both of you so you can decide how you want to deal with the situation. You know I say kick his a** to the curb, but some of yall are soft and don't know how to let go, you like to stick around for strike two, three, and four before you kick him to the curb.
Now let’s say the chick does not about you..... (Chants) "WHOOP THAT TRICK, WHOOP THAT TRICK!" I'm just kidding. In reality, she still doesn't owe you anything. You can try to confront her which may lead to a fight but before you do, you should evaluate if the guy you are with is worth fighting for. Sometimes a man can do all the right things and slip up once but if he is a repeat offender, let her have him and walk away. No man should be worth your time to fight for when the main character breaking your heart.
With that said, stop calling chicks in his phone and threatening her. It's your man you need to check or let go. Eliminate your life from the drama by cutting out the source. F*ck ni**s, get money.
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damn that! i'm checkin everybody's chin if the bish knows about me! if she doesn't know, she will be told if i were to decide to stick around but if he is a repeat offender, his ass would be on the street.
I think the "girls" who address a situation in this manner are foolishly in love and want to redirect their angry at someone else because she knows she going take him back. So she vents on the other woman to get the anger out....(kanye shrug)
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Catirah- each situation is different and it depends on how attached you are to a person... not saying its wrong or right.. but sometimes it's not worth it.
Real Housewives - I agree, and it's foolish.
*moonwalks away frum girlfriend and jumpoff as they slug it out*
I totally agree with all that was said, but on the flip side of this..When the other woman knows about you & is just being right out disrespectful!!! Sometimes you might have to "whoop that trick" ... just off of GP ... But Im really not one for getting my make-up messed up for a trick!
im sorry i think the only time the woman or the man checks the person their mate is cheating with is if they know them, like if it's ur homeboy or your brother or your sister or bff. Then yes! they both gotta be checked. But of i'm just some dude that u see once in a while driving down the street and we ain't boys and ur girl is willing to cheat on you. Don't check me homie check your girl becuase i can't do or the other person can't do what the cheater is willing .. real talk
i meant i can't do anything to your girl if she doesn't let me. If they don't know you? they don't owe you
Danyelle- I agree with that
Heavenlyhollywood- LOL I feel you!
Each situation is different and you deal with it accordingly, just saying, the other chick may be innoncent and the real problem is your man who is breakin promises to you.
I've thought about this for quite some time and have come to the conclusion that she has a better chance of beatin up ol girl than tryin to fight him lol
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