Sometimes women just need to fall back to see how much a man really thinks about her. When you continuously throw yourself at him, he will expect that and know that you will always be there. When you decide to fall back and let him take full control of the situation, you will see if the ni**a is really for you or not. If he really want you around, you will be the first person he calls because he has not heard from you in awhile and misses your presence. If he really want you around, he will call you to request dinner, movies, a meet up or something. He isn't just going to let you fade to black and be done. He is going to be concerned why you are being scarce and not so into everything he is doing.
A man loves a chase but he doesn't like being chased so much. Of course he may think it is cute in the beginning, but real talk, he loves it when you are a little mysterious and not so available. My advice is to keep busy, always have plans, and fit him in where he can get in. Stop being so available and there at his beck and call. A man will not appreciate you until he realizes what he is missing.
To sum up this drunken blog, YES I'M DRUNK, but I'm not stupid.... MAKE HIM MISS YOU!
4 comments:
haha Love it!
Good post. I love when I woman make me miss her.
Very well said even if you were drunk, but at the same time being to mysterious to a man can equal suspension. So it's a fine line you walk, if you don't walk away when you not needed.
Yella,
you are the ish!!!! you need 2 be writing for Essense Mag or a major publication. I am a follower of yours just from running across you on the web. I hope you explained this blog 2 one of your main girls because she thinks she is in the mix RT ing everything you say but looking so stoopid running after the ballers shotcallers who not even paying her no mind.
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